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» samridh - PPL HELP!..its killing me

hey ol..iv been wid her fo arnd 5 mnths nw..n ours ws a satisfying n a bful relationship...until one day she told me dat she doesnt feel it rite wen she is wid me..n she said dis feeling came to her in bout last 10 20 days...she said she luvd me..bt she says her love fo me has changed..its nthn like it used 2 b...n she says she felt guilty cuz she failed 2 reciprocate de luv i gave her...i hav devoted soo much in dis relationshp...n am soo in luv wid her...nw hw cn she call it off suddnly..plus i see her ol de time...i mean i cnt avoid seeing her..as we r in de same skool...n wen i tol her dat i wont b able to tok 2 her n mayb ignore her...she ws like hw cn u b dis way...she wants me 2 b frenz wid her...of ol i noe she is very cnfusd bout everythn nw...n i 2 want her back..i dun noe wat 2 do...should i talk 2 her 'as a frend' like she says or else i shud ignore her...bt if i do dat it'l hurt her..n i dun want dat..plz help

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» Cherie Burbach - PPL HELP!..its killing me

In response to PPL HELP!..its killing me posted by samridh:

The reality is... sometimes love DOES change. If she ain't feeling it with you anymore, at least she was honest and you can both move on. Sure, it hurts now, but look for someone who wants to be with you. Don't ignore her but don't be her best pal either. Some space is what you need. If she wants to get back together THINK TWICE. Instead, chalk it up to experience and think about how glad you'll be when you meet someone so much better who doesn't play these mind games with you.

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» samridh - PPL HELP!..its killing me

In response to PPL HELP!..its killing me posted by CherieBurbach:
thnx fo dat reply but u noe wen i tok to her..ol dose bful moments spent wid her bring tears 2 my eyes...duno wt 2 do..cuz today i ignored her cmpletely...as if she ws non-existant bt she ws ol upset n sad throught de day..i dun want even dat..duno wat 2 do!

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» Cherie Burbach - PPL HELP!..its killing me

In response to PPL HELP!..its killing me posted by samridh:

Well if she's telling you she doesn't want to be with you anymore, then she doesn't have the right to be upset about it when you don't hang out with her like before. Sounds like she wants it both ways: she wants the freedom to be with other people but to also receive your affection and attention.

All this talk is about HER but you've got your own life and feelings to think about. What are YOU getting out of this deal? Nothing. So you've got to move on to someone who will treat you better - like you deserve to be treated.

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» samridh - PPL HELP!..its killing me

In response to PPL HELP!..its killing me posted by CherieBurbach:

de problem which is still dere is dat she says she cares fo me n loves me..bt nt de same way she used 2..nd i love her sooo much...cant c her sad..n to tell u de truth there is still a hope dat mayb she'l come bak...soo plz teme wt 2 do..am in sucha big cnfusion..

ps:-n thanks alot fr replyin...prolly ne oda forum wudnt hav catered 2 my problem..

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» Cherie Burbach - PPL HELP!..its killing me

In response to PPL HELP!..its killing me posted by samridh:

The thing is, if someone tells you they don't love you like before and they want to see others... then they DON'T have the right to hang out with you anymore. It doesn't matter if she feels bad or still wants your attention. Sounds like she's playing you. She wants to date others but still wants to keep you around for when things don't work out with someone else. Then, she might come back to you... for a while... but will probably do the exact same thing when she wants to go out with someone else again.

What you need to do is tell her that if she doesn't want to go out with you that you need a break from her friendship, too. Tell her you are not totally ending things with her but since she initiated this she should understand you wanting to move on LIKE SHE ALREADY HAS. Tell her you two may be friends again at some point, but you're not making any promises.

Then find someone else. Someone who will treat you WELL. Not someone who will play with your emotions.

If she wants to get back together - be cautious. But walk away from her now so you can get some distance and see that it's the right thing.

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» samridh - help!

its been 2 mnths since i had a break up...i just cnt seem 2 get over her...i really love her..n want her back...previously she ws being soo cold towards me..n i ws de one who cried a million tears...bt frm dis week on iv been ignoring her...nt even looking at her...n a frend f mine talkd bout me 2 her...nw she smsed quite a few times askng bout my health(i ws unwell for a while)i din reply...wt shud i do???shud i keep on ignoring her...bt seriously i want her back...is dere some way i cn do dat..help plz

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» Cherie Burbach - help!

In response to help! posted by samridh:

You won't get her back. You've been in a bad situation and the more you tortue yourself over it the more it prevents you from moving forward. You need to forget about her and instead find someone that deserves you.

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