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» samridh - help me again plz!!

heya..
i am posting again n this time am in a serious confusion as to wat 2 do...okay i had dis gurl..wid whum i ws in a relationship for bout 5 mnths...den 1 very fine day she told me she dint feel it nemore...she din feel de initial sparks which she felt bfore...n soo she ws very firm bout her descion...n so afta dat day it has been 3 4 weeks...n we r on talking terms...iv been tryn to persuade her to come back..she says she doesnt know..i tried makin her understand dat initial months of relationships r very exciting n evrythng bt aftr a while it cools down a bit...bt dat doesnt mean u will end up de relationship..she listens to me each time..bt doesnt say nethn...like she doesnt wants to aknowledge my feelings..instead she changes de topic...she also doesnt want dat i ignore her n dun talk to her...n afta soo many breakdowns n outbursts of emotions..iv told her wteva i feel..nw i dun noe wt 2 do....should i talk to her...i cannot stop talkin to here as she meets me everyday at skool...bt if she really is determined to break up...i need 2 move on 2..n 1 more point she says that there ws nthn wrong in me...jus dat she din feel it nemore...n soo it ws betta to end it...n she doesnt want to get into relationship wid ne1 else fo nw...daz fo sure..newez i dun noe wt 2 do...i want her back...cuz i luv her soo much...n i hav devoted soo much in dis relationship...she says she still cares for me...n wants me to b dere wid her...i dun noe wt 2 do..i wnt her back despartly!..

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» Cherie Burbach - help me again plz!!

In response to help me again plz!! posted by samridh:

Once again, she told you she didn't want to date you. She said it had nothing to do with you, and it probably doesn't. Sometimes one person is more in love than the other is, so these types of break ups are harder to get over.

But if she told you she didn't want to date you, she doesn't. She's probably trying to be nice and tell you it has nothing to do with you. She just wants to date someone else - which means you should too. Try to distance yourself from her, not to be mean, but to move on from the relationship and allow her to date other people.

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