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Cherie Burbach
- What do I do?
I can totally understand how you're feeing, and you've done a great job of trying to talk about things with him. Like you said, the real issue here is the secrets he's keeping.
He might be trying to hide things because he's embarrassed. And while you've been there for him, if he can't even tell you the truth how can you both move forward? Now he's got you feeling like you're nagging him to talk about it because he refuses.
Hopefully a counseler will help him see how he can deal with this issue so you both deal with it. I wish you the best.
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