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» blkstar23 - What do I do?

Thank you so much for your advice.

He never told me it was a one time thing. I was okay with him wearing the lingerie, I'm more leery since it's evolved into him wearing a full women's outfit.

I try and talk to him about things or ask him, and he opens up some, but he still seems to be full of surprises. I was just gone last weekend, and I have a full length mirror behind the bedroom door that I use to make sure my outfit looks okay with my shoes, etc, like any ordinary person..but the mirror was moved, and I asked him why it was moved, and his response was "I don't know" I said to him "obviously you do know, since I was gone, and you were the only one here." To this he didn't respond. I didn't ask anymore about it because I am so sick of him shutting down. I constantly feel like I try and he doesn't, and then he gets mad at me and says I don't try.

I think you are right that we need to seek some sort of counseling, because I truly believe that it's ripping us apart. I can accept all of it, but I can't and won't accept the secrets and the lying. I don't think I should have too.

Thanks. If you have any more advice, I'd love to hear it!

-- posted by blkstar23