Dating

» shehua7 - Need Dating & Confession Help ASAP

Currently, I fall deeply in love with a charming and sweet young Taiwanese lady called Katy, we met only twice including a romantic Valentine's dinner at one of the most luxurious restaurant in Auckland, New Zealand. That was a perfect night and she told me on that night tht we have a lot in common and she loved to be with me. However, my problem is, after last Thursday dinner, she very rarely reply my text messages. In this sort of situation, can someone please help me what should I do next. I really really want to be with this girl, she is funny, makes me laugh everytime we speak and she is the type of the girl that always make my stress go away when I am with her. She is everything I have been dreaming about. Can someone please help me on this instance and provide me some tips, which I can use to make her feel that I really really love her and care for her. Need help ASAP!!!!

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» Cherie Burbach - Help ASAP

If you've contacted her and she hasn't contacted you back, she may be trying to tell you that she's not interested in moving forward. You only went out with her twice, so even though you really like her, you didn't spend enough time together to have a real relationship.

At this point you've already tried to contact her, so if she doesn't respond you should move on.

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» shehua7 - Help ASAP

In response to Help ASAP posted by CherieBurbach:

Thank you for your advice Cherie, I will definitely give your adivcement great though. Thank you again for your help. However there are one problem. I love this girl way too much to give up just like that, do you have any other suggestions that I can implement and changer her point of view about me. Maybe let her to like me to start with. Please tell me, what should I do to gain this girl's trust and attention?

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» shehua7 - I am Not a Quitter

Cherie, I am not quitter,I am not going to quit or move on without having a go at it. Therefore, please please tell what can and should I do for Katy that she can understand that I really really love her and I want to be with her. I hate people say I am a quitter, that is why I am willing to give anything and everything a try just to grab katy's heart and her attention. Please please tell me what should I do right now. I am so willing to do anything for her.

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» Cherie Burbach - help

See, this isn't just about YOU. It's about her, too. And it doesn't matter if you two went out and you felt that you had a great time. If she doesn't get back to you, she probably doesn't WANT to keep in touch. Some people are better at telling others they aren't interested. Rather than be straight with someone, they'll just stop calling or stop responding.

The thing is, you can't make someone fall in love with you. So if you tried to contact her and she hasn't responded, you MUST move on. It's not quitting, it's simply realizing that this person isn't interested. If you continue to try and get in touch with someone that doesn't want your affections, then you'll be bothering them. Or worse.

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